January 9, 2024

When you think of handling a pet, you may think of a vet trying to wrangle an unruly Great Dane or Golden Retriever. But, being able to handle your kitten at home or at the vet is just as important. A cat is less likely to struggle when being brushed or given medications at home when used to handling. And, at the vet, being able to handle your kitten may make the difference in a critical situation. Luckily, getting started on kitten handling only takes a few minutes a day. 

Why Is Handling Important?

Handling is one part of the critical skill of socialization. Socialization helps your kitten get used to varying situations. These range from a new person coming over to walking on a leash or encountering a new toy or treat. The more experiences you get your cat used to, the less likely they are to have a stress response when something novel happens. It gives your kitten the skills they need to be able to handle any situation.  

It’s also smart to get the whole family involved. Have your kids join in on practicing kitten handling under supervision. This is a great way to get your kitten used to kids. It will also help teach your kids how to properly handle a cat. Share information with your kids such as signs to look out for when your kitten is uncomfortable. These include squirming, hissing or growling, or flattened ears. 

Kitten Handling at Home

From brushing to bathing, being able to handle your kitten at home can help make tasks easier. The best time to start is when your kitten is sleepy — after a good play session or eating a meal. This is when your cat is the least likely to be stressed and more likely to accept handling.  

For especially wary or fearful kittens, start with the basics. Gently pet their ears, running your hand over their back, or touching their tail. You can offer a few treats between each session. This helps encourage a positive association between the touch and the treat. From there, you can focus on gently squeezing your cat’s paws to extend their claws, wiggling their ears, or running a hand over their mouth and nose.  

Work on more areas you may need your cat to be  comfortable with as they get used to being handled. Open their mouth to brush their teeth or gently handle their feet for a nail trim. Each session shouldn’t be longer than a minute or two but can be done several times throughout the day. 

If at any time your kitten becomes uncomfortable or shows signs of distress, stop. These include squirming, hissing, moving away, or looking generally upset. You want your cat to associate handling with positive emotions. It’s best to give them a chance to calm down before trying again.

Handling at the Vet or Groomer

Kitten handling at the vet or groomer can be a little trickier than at home, but it uses the same techniques. Most vets and vet techs are happy to have a non-exam visit from a patient, but it’s a good idea to call ahead and ask if there is a good time to stop by for some practice.  

Practicing in stages is a great way to get your cat used to the vet or groomer. If you have a very fearful cat working on the basics such as sitting quietly in a carrier and being fed treats can help make the experience less stressful. If your kitten is more outgoing, exploring an exam room while a tech or the vet gently pets or holds them can be a fun experience. And, if your cat is comfortable with it, practice having them be wrapped in a towel or gently held — all with a few treats in between. 

The more experiences your kitten has the less likely they are to be fearful when the time comes for actual care. Creating a positive association with handling will help make things easier — and a little less stressful — for everyone.

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